They say I need to go to rehab...

and I say NOOO NOOO NO! Ok, I should probably stop the Diet Coke. At least in my children's line of vision. sigh. Im certain that should be on the chopping block. Oh boy will that be hard. So is there a person that one can actually consult with that will somewhat customize for our family? Someone that specializes in exactly what Im asking about or do I need to just keep researching tons of books? This just can't be that hard. There have to be moms out there that can get it all done. Who are you and how do you do it?